tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-62002221026528622712024-02-19T09:55:26.342+08:00二姐疯狂记事簿二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-22872251958368959552011-09-04T23:57:00.000+08:002011-09-04T23:58:46.791+08:00依赖=幸福依赖是一种幸福。<br />
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就好像妈妈煮饭给我吃,出门时爸爸可以载我出去。</div>
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就像吃饭时有朋友的陪伴,孤单时有情人相伴。</div>
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我知道我是多么依赖他们,但是有得依赖,是多么的幸福。</div>
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常听你说,你要独立一点。</div>
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可是为什么我有得幸福我却要那么不识相地拒绝它呢?</div>
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你说只有家人,朋友,情人总有一天总会离我而去,只有自己才能够一辈子陪伴自己,所以人一定要独立点才行。</div>
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我说,就因为他们总有一天会离我而去,所以我才想要在他们还在时依赖他们。</div>
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否则他们在时我不依赖,他们走后我也不能依赖,那么我这么独立干嘛?</div>
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让自己不那么伤心难过吗?</div>
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我真要独立的话,我可以很独立。</div>
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可是我就是不想。</div>
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能够依赖别人的小孩很幸福,我也很幸福。。。</div>
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不要夺走我的幸福,好吗?</div>
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二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-34300479271586786772011-07-27T23:23:00.004+08:002011-07-27T23:41:08.455+08:00姐妹<div>
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我有一个很好的朋友。</div>
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我们曾一起跳舞,一起做bom bom,一起表演唱歌跳舞,一起学小提琴,一起哭一起笑。</div>
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自从我们俩都交了男友后,我们越来越少见面。</div>
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直到最近,由于一起运动的关系,我才有比较多机会跟她相处。</div>
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最近跟她闲聊时才得知,原来她曾在我生日时亲手为我烘培蛋糕。</div>
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后来因为蛋糕石化了,所以她没拿来送我。</div>
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她说,那是她第一次做蛋糕给别人,也是最后一次。</div>
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虽然我没吃到,但是我真的非常感动。(谢谢你)</div>
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知道有人曾为我亲手烘培蛋糕是一件很骄傲的事情。</div>
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“呵呵,想当年,你妈我有一个好朋友特地去学做蛋糕替我庆生叻~”</div>
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更令我感动的是,虽然她说她记性不好,可她竟然还记得我说过的话。</div>
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(重点是,连我自己说过什么东西我都忘记了)</div>
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原来,她一直都把我放在心上。 </div>
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我不确定这样是否就是知己。</div>
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但是我很清楚知道,如果这次我再不好好把握这段友谊的话,我将会后悔莫及。</div>
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“一个人可以毫无理由跟你做亲戚一辈子,</div>
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但是一个人不会毫无理由跟你做朋友一辈子。” (转载自网络)</div>
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如果你今天拥有一个很头圆(投缘),很喜欢的朋友。。。</div>
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珍惜吧!</div>
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二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-74789253465670809972011-06-24T18:25:00.000+08:002011-06-24T18:25:29.180+08:00镜子里的我我的朋友问我怎么我最近看起来那么累。<br />
<div>回家后,我认真地看着镜子。。。</div><div>“靠,怎么里面这个人<b>越来越像鬼</b>?”</div><div>黑黑的头发,苍白的脸蛋,再加上一双看起来被人揍过的双眼。</div><div>拍<b>鬼片</b>的话找我就对了,我应该很适合!<br />
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为了恢复人样,我决定从今天起要<b>早睡早起</b>!<br />
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</div><div>最近除了跳舞&学业,还是跳舞&学业。。。(废话)</div><div>值得高兴的事,我终于有<b>舞伴</b>了!</div><div>但是由于他在另一个地方学舞,所以接下来我必须在两个学院学舞,<br />
而一个月的学费竟然是RM200!(喷血)<br />
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虽然付出不一定有结果,但是我知道如果<b>不付出就一定没有结果</b>。</div><div>为了解决我金钱上的问题,我最近也开始私下教朋友初级拉丁舞,希望这能减轻我的负担吧!<br />
(谁有兴趣拉丁舞但是嫌外面收费太贵的话,找我就对了!)<br />
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另外一件值得开心的事是,我的拉丁舞老师问我11月底的时候要不要去沙巴表演。<br />
包吃包住包飞机票,我当然是说YES啦~<br />
我有预感,这将会是我在人生中一个很棒的经验,期待中~ <3<br />
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我一想到我没有partner&服装,我便没告诉老师,<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">其实我很想参加。</span><br />
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后来,我的朋友告诉我,如果那时我有表明说自己想参加的话,partner的问题是可以解决的,服装也可以跟别人借。<br />
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我听了很后悔。<br />
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为了不让自己那么后悔,我不停地安慰自己:<br />
“没关系啦,没去参加比赛可以省钱嘛~ 反正最近也花了很多钱。”<br />
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可是我还是很伤心,因为我知道我错失了一个很好的机会。<br />
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很多时候,我都是犯了同样的错误。<br />
想要一样东西,觉得前方有很多我不能跨越的障碍,觉得自己不配拥有。<br />
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经过这件事后,我告诉自己,别再犹豫不决,想要什么就去做。<br />
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我不知道那时我会不会因为功课或者考试而忙,不清楚那个学舞的地方怎么去,也没有朋友陪我一起去学。<br />
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Everything is gonna be okay, as long as u know how to manage your time and have some faith.二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-7360544542390837132011-05-08T17:12:00.005+08:002011-05-08T17:22:17.773+08:00最感动的小事我是个爱干净却讨厌打扫的人。(简称:洁癖懒人)<br />
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前一阵子,我的同学说要来我家帮忙打扫屋子,虽然最后我没让他们来,可是他们的这份心意却让我感动不已。<br />
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昨天早上,我听到厕所有<b>洗厕所的声音</b>,还有隔壁房有<b>女人的咳嗽声</b>。<br />
要是在平常的日子,我会很安慰地说:“呵呵,终于有人主动洗厕所了啊~”<br />
问题是,我的室友及屋友明明<b>回家乡</b>去了。<br />
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那么。。。<br />
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我的心不禁开始长毛。<br />
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于是,我悄悄走去房门,把房门锁好。<br />
然后跳上床催眠自己:“<b>阿弥陀佛,你听到的一切都只是幻觉来的。</b>”<br />
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突然间!我的电话有信息:<br />
“借用你的锁匙一下。” T哥<br />
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T哥是我的姐姐的男朋友,他跟姐姐放假来吉隆坡走走,还有帮我洗厕所。(太肮脏了,他看不过去)<br />
而那个咳嗽的女人则是我的姐姐。(囧)<br />
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<b>恐怖的背景音乐立刻被感动的钢琴曲代替。</b><br />
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后来,姐姐还爱心赞助新的过滤器,解决了我饮水的烦恼(家里水太黄了,我不太敢喝)<br />
而T哥帮我安装过滤器,换了屋子外面的过滤器的芯,还帮忙洗地!<br />
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<b>有姐姐真好,有那么好的男友更好。(握拳)</b><br />
衷心希望姐姐赶快嫁给他,<s>然后生个可爱的Baby让我玩啦~</s><br />
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我是个爱干净却讨厌打扫的人。<br />
所以说,要感动我很容易,不必花钱送我什么Strawberry or Blackberry,帮我打扫就可以了。(误)<br />
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<div style="text-align: left;">题外话:话说今天是母亲节,祝天下的孩子都是孝顺的孩子!</div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-41860343970426086352011-04-27T17:58:00.004+08:002011-04-27T23:08:44.665+08:00拉丁舞之恋<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1kbGAnY-A9cNoyPcEo1BIH7gx-gJkOTXi05IJc7l-Y1bzlwdYozUz-FM2oKNset_6KermmysEDgScvWNu-VqAbzCfkMV4N8fWH-ecgsLe0Xa2QQUWn4VoV0lOoUhIk7h5BL_3wPQvK6BM/s1600/Violin_by_Szklanyczlowiek.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; font-family: 楷体; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1kbGAnY-A9cNoyPcEo1BIH7gx-gJkOTXi05IJc7l-Y1bzlwdYozUz-FM2oKNset_6KermmysEDgScvWNu-VqAbzCfkMV4N8fWH-ecgsLe0Xa2QQUWn4VoV0lOoUhIk7h5BL_3wPQvK6BM/s320/Violin_by_Szklanyczlowiek.jpg" width="212" /></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">不得不承认,我‘年轻’时还学过蛮多东西的,</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">吉他,钢琴,</span><span style="color: black;">Hip-hop<span lang="ZH-CN">,土风舞,</span>New Jazz<span lang="ZH-CN">,瑜伽,啦啦队。。。</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">但是没有一样持久就是了。(年轻人就是三分钟热度)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">虽然如此,但是我从不觉得学过的东西是白学了。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">我从吉他及钢琴中学会节奏,从</span><span style="color: black;">Hip-hop<span lang="ZH-CN">学会身体律动,</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">从土风舞学会手势及眼神的配合,从</span><span style="color: black;">New Jazz<span lang="ZH-CN">学会性感,</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">从瑜伽学会柔软,从啦啦队学会力度及胆识。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">这次,在三个月的假期里,我爱上了拉丁舞。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">改变了以往对拉丁舞的刻板印象,也改变了我。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">从不穿高跟鞋的我,竟然穿上了</span><span style="color: black;">3<span lang="ZH-CN">寸高跟鞋翩翩起舞。</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">鲜少穿裙子的我也爱上穿裙子,就连我那像个骆驼的背也开始直了起来。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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</span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">拉丁舞里的<span style="color: black;">5<span lang="ZH-CN">种舞,我接触了的</span>3<span lang="ZH-CN">种:</span>Cha-cha, Rumba, Samba.<o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">有的人惊叹:“哇你学东西好快!”</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">有的人羡慕:“你是天才。”</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">但是没人看到我每天在家练舞练到脚痛的情形。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">而我的体重也因为天天练舞的关系,跌了5公斤,瞬间变成制造肉骨茶的好材料。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">我知道,要成为天才不是一朝一夕的事,舞蹈也一样。</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">那天,我偶然看到一篇文章,<a href="http://roll.sohu.com/20110427/n306521801.shtml">《一万个小时的练习》</a></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">里面提到,一万小时的练习,是走向成功的必经之路。</span></span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">没有人仅用</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: black;">3000<span lang="ZH-CN">小时就能达到世界级水准;</span>7500<span lang="ZH-CN">小时也不行;一定要</span>10000<span lang="ZH-CN">小时</span>10<span lang="ZH-CN">年,每天</span>3<span lang="ZH-CN">小时无论你是谁。</span></span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">以我的情况来说,这</span><span style="color: black;">3<span lang="ZH-CN">个月我好像才用了</span>100<span lang="ZH-CN">个小时来练习。</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">换句话说,我还需要</span><span style="color: black;">9900<span lang="ZH-CN">个小时的练习。(囧</span></span>)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">希望这次我能坚持下去。</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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</span></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">虽然说我很愿意练一万个小时,但是在这之前,我必须先找到一个男伴陪我一起进步,然后一起去参加比赛之类的。现在,进广告!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;">地点:吉隆坡</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">条件:</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: black;"></span><span style="color: black;">1<span lang="ZH-CN">)男的</span> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">2<span lang="ZH-CN">)愿意陪我练一万个小时</span> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">3<span lang="ZH-CN">)有舞蹈经验</span> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">4<span lang="ZH-CN">)长相顺眼</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><br />
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</b></span></a></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-21857531431582373322011-04-21T18:11:00.002+08:002011-04-21T23:35:21.237+08:00做么你不要辅导我?<div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">最近,有个朋友叫我把他当作是我的客户来辅导,我便推辞说:我们有一个</span>rule<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">是不能辅导自己的朋友或家人的。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">“<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">为什么呢</b>?”他问。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">‘嗯。。。我改天再回答你的问题好吗?我很懒惰。’</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">但事实上。。。<b>我也不知道为什么啊!</b>(奔跑)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">抱着‘人生就是不停地在学习’的态度,</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我上网找资料</span>---<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">没有详细解释。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">‘没人解释,那么我自己想好了。’我心想。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><u>为什么辅导员不能辅导自己的家人或朋友</u>?</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN">(</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">警告:请别在考试时写这种答案)</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><br />
</b></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>隐私问题</b></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">朋友</span>A<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">告诉我朋友</span>B<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">的坏话,在唱衰</span>B<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">的同时,由于</span>A<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">知道你也认识</span>B<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">所以</span>A<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">便没有把全部的实情告诉你,让你很为难,但其实你知道实情后却你更为难。</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你心想:‘我应该替</span>A<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>保密</b>还是把这事<b>告诉</b></span><b>B</b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">让他们去解决呢?’</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>情绪问题</b></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你的朋友对你说,他最近爱上了一个人,并且发生了性关系,很不巧的那个人却是你的女友。</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你心想:‘我要<b>辅导他</b>,还是<b>阉了他</b>好呢?’</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>角色问题</b></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你妈妈说她最近很烦,因为她的孩子(也就是你)总是不听她的话。</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你心想:妈妈?客户?<b>傻傻分不清楚</b>。</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> <b> </b></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>金钱问题</b></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">跟家人或朋友收钱会对不起他们,不收钱却又对不起自己。所以还是不要辅导好了。</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你心想:</span><span lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>要钱还是要命</b>好呢?</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>技术问题</b></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">说穿了,你只是个心理学<b>学生</b>而已,根本就不是什么专业辅导员,一点技术含量都没有。</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; mso-add-space: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">你心想:啊我根本就<b>不是很会</b>,你要我怎样?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</span></div><blockquote><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">‘辅导员和个案之间,应尽量避免发生多重关系。换言之,辅导员不能将个案变成朋友,也不适合辅导朋友或家人。有些朋友知道我是辅导员后总爱向他倾诉问题,寻求帮助。而我的应对方式,就是先聆听,然后向对方表达自己在专业守则上有所限制,并为他推荐更适合的辅导员。’</span></blockquote><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 37.5pt; text-align: right;">---<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><a href="http://mydpx.asia/web/demo/jobstar/03_demo.pdf">李志祥</a>(辅导员)</span> </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">所以,我亲爱的家人</span>/<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">朋友们:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">如果我是辅导员,我不能辅导你(为了避免发生多重关系)。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">如果我不是辅导员,我也不能辅导你(辅导员插嘴:“请让专业的来”)。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">或许你会好奇:“是辅导员又不能辅导家人朋友,不是也不能辅导,酱你读来做么?”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我会说:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">‘管你屁事。’</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
</span></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-11948717381417381782011-04-19T14:15:00.007+08:002011-04-19T16:22:23.602+08:00你会洗厕所吗?(18sx)<div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">人们总是爱问:“哦?你读</span>心理学<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">的啊?那你可以帮我看一下我有什么问题吗</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">?”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">对于这种问题,想必很多人心理学的学生都会觉得很无奈。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">因为答‘好’也不好,答‘不要’好像很没礼貌。(华人的传统就是不敢说‘不’)</span><br />
<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">而且最重要的是,啊我根本就<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>不会</b></span>啊!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">但是没关系,我最近想出了一个很棒的应对方式。(沾沾自喜中)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">×以下是错误示范,小于</span>18</b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">岁者请在家长的陪伴下阅读×</span><o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">情况一</span><o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">小明:“你读心理学的啊?那你可以帮我看一下我有什么问题吗?”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我:<b>‘请问你会洗厕所吗?’</b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">小明:“会啊~”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我:<b>‘那你怎么不帮我洗厕所呢?’</b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">小明:(无言)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">要是小明说他<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">不会</b>我也有另一个应对方式。(自豪)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">情况二</span><o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">小明:“你读心理学的啊?那你可以帮我看一下我有什么问题吗?”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我:‘请问你会洗厕所吗?’</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">小明:“不会。”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我:‘<b>我也是。’</b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">小明:(无言)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">写这篇文章的目的不是要你做个无情的人,而是想告诉你不要当个‘烂好人’。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">当你习惯了什么事情都说‘好’时,你便是一个‘烂好人’,</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">而别人就会把你的帮助当作理所当然。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">直到有一天,你终于受不了拒绝的时候,别人就会冷冷地对你说:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><b>“你变了。”</b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">相反的,我希望各位在认为对方做得来的时候,不妨当个坏人,</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">不到紧要关头绝不出场,这样别人不止会很感激你,而你也不会太累。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">我知道这种想法很自私,但是请问谁不自私呢?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">比起当个烂好人被人利用,或当个自私的坏人,我选择当个<b>奸的好人</b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 宋体;">。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;">所以,下次有人叫你帮忙而你却不想时,不妨问他:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体;"><br />
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</span></b></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-73005165787798163482011-04-16T23:00:00.001+08:002011-04-16T23:02:09.489+08:00亲爱的, 说话可以不要用喊的吗?可曾想过为什么吵架的时候总是提高声量回应对方呢?<br />
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是想让对方注意你?(你又不是透明的,那么大个人站在他眼前怎么不注意你?)<br />
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怕对方听不到你的话?(又不是耳聋,离那么近怎么听不到叻?)<br />
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还是因为愤怒?<br />
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都不是。<br />
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而是因为你们的<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">心变远</span>了。<br />
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今天我看了一则小故事,觉得间中的道理还蛮有趣的。<br />
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<div style="text-align: left;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>心的距离</b></span></i></div><br />
有位教授问学生:为什么生气时说话总是用喊的?<br />
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几乎所有学生都七嘴八舌地回答了一堆答案,但是没有一个是让教授满意的,最后教授解释:<br />
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“因为当两个人生气的时候,心的距离是很遥远的。而为了掩盖这个距离使对方听见,于是必须用喊的。但是被喊的人会更生气,更生气就离更远,距离越远就又要喊更大声。”<br />
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教练继续说:“这也解释了为什么两个人在恋爱时说话那么小声。这是因为他们的心很接近。而当他们心中的爱变更深时,他们根本不需要言语,光看着对方就够了,因为那时心与心之间早已没距离了。。。”<br />
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此时,教堂里鸦雀无声。<br />
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‘那么下次有争执时我该怎么办呢?不能用喊的,也不可能沉住气用轻声细语跟对方说话呀!我办不到。’ 一位学生打破沉默。<br />
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教授说:“问得好!既然你已经知道了这个道理,那么当有争执的时候便不要说些让心更远的话,自然地过了几天,等心的距离没那么远时再好好地说吧!”<br />
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<div style="text-align: right;">改编自:<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 26px;"><a href="http://site.douban.com/widget/forum/301617/discussion/36966188/">为什么吵架时要大声说话</a></span></div><br />
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从来都没想过原来心与心之间是有距离的。<br />
吵架的时候,是因为心的距离变远了,为了掩盖之间的距离,所以用喊的,<br />
结果越喊心越遥远。<br />
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虽然我吵架的时候不会用喊的(我只会在一旁当哭包),但是我觉得这个解释很有趣呢~<br />
今天又学了一样东西,太棒了。<br />
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<div style="text-align: right;">人生就是不停地在学习,我在学习如何正确地表达自己的想法及情绪,你呢?</div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-7265877496306028672011-04-15T23:17:00.016+08:002011-04-16T23:07:10.781+08:00心理学学生的呐喊:“我们只是普通人!”<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">“<span lang="ZH-CN">你读心理学的啊?酱你懂我现在在想什么吗?</span>”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">每当我告诉别人我修读的科目是心理学时,</span>10<span lang="ZH-CN">个人里有</span>9<span lang="ZH-CN">个会问这个问题。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">一开始,我还很有耐心地解释。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">可是我每认识一个人,我就得解释一次,这让我非常困扰。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b><span lang="ZH-CN">拜托,就连你自己都不清楚你在想什么,你觉得我会知道吗?</span></b><b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">有时,我甚至很想掩饰我就读的科目。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">怎么掩饰呢?</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">就是每当有人问起我就读的科系时,我便叫他猜我像是读什么科的人。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">然后,无论他回答什么,我都会说:</span><b>“<span lang="ZH-CN">对了!真聪明!</span>”</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">可是我这个人就是太<b>单纯</b>了,不会讲骗话。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">而且要是那个人继续问我关于那个领域的问题我却答不上来的话,这样好像也不太好,</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">所以我并没有这么做。</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">大多数的人认为心理学就是读心术。这造成很多修读心理学的人困扰,甚至造成我们在种种的人际上遇到许多问题。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">我们被误解:</span>“Yer~<span lang="ZH-CN">你是读</span>Psychology<span lang="ZH-CN">的啊?酱我<b><span class="Apple-style-span">不要跟你讲酱多话</span></b>,等下我<b><span class="Apple-style-span">被你P</span></b></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span">sycho.</span></b>”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">我们被歧视:</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">读心理学的人都是<span class="Apple-style-span"><b>心理有问题</b></span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">的。</span>”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">我们被侮辱:</span>“Huh? <span lang="ZH-CN">你读了酱久的心理学都不懂别人的心理在想什么的啊?那你不是<b><span class="Apple-style-span">白读</span></b>了咯?</span>”<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 。</span></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN"><i><s>妈的,我受够了。</s></i></span><b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">所以,今天我决定站出来认真地回答这个问题,帮助我及我的同行澄清:</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span">“<span lang="ZH-CN">心理学不是读心术啦!</span>”</span></b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
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</span></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><ul><li><span style="font-size: small;"><u><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">心理学是科学,读心术是巫术。</span></b></u></span></li>
</ul></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">‘<b><span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span></b><span lang="ZH-CN">是古代许多民族和地区的一种<b>巫术</b>。直到现在,人们还可能耳闻或目睹一些所谓古老神奇的读心术。当然,它们多半只是一些游戏,借用读心术的名称以吸引人们的视听。而<b>心理学</b>是一门诞生于</span>19<span lang="ZH-CN">世纪末的现代<b>科学</b>,它用科学的方法来研究人类的心理与行为。本质上,科学的心理学与作为巫术的读心术,是完全不同的。</span>’<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<div align="right" style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"> --- <span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">钟年(武汉大学心理学系教授)</span>, 2009<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div align="right" style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">这名仁兄也说得很好(有兴趣了解更多的人可以去<a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1018165436">他的</a></span><a href="http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_515b7bf30100tilp.html">blog</a><span lang="ZH-CN">看正文):</span><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span">‘<span lang="ZH-CN">心理学家和普通人一样,只能观察到他人的行为,并不能看到,或者感觉到别人具体在想什么。到现在为止,脑科学和其它任何一门科学也无法直接观察到人在想什么。一些特异功能者声称他们可以判读他人的想法,这种能力称为</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">“</span><span class="apple-style-span"><b><span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span></b></span><span class="apple-style-span">”</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">。但这类报告尚<b>无一通过</b>严格的<b>科学检验</b>。</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"> </span><span class="apple-style-span"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">你要知道别人在想什么<b>只有一个办法</b></span></span><span class="apple-style-span">——</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN"><b>请他告诉你</b>!如果对方不愿意告诉你,或者虽然开了口但并不对你讲实话,没有任何方法能解决这个问题。如果说有什么秘诀的话,那个秘诀叫作</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">“</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN"><b>信任</b></span></span><span class="apple-style-span">”</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">。你努力去赢得别人的信任,他自然会对你讲更多的实话。</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">’<o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
<div align="right" style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span">--- </span><span lang="ZH-CN">领航心理,</span>2011<b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div align="right" style="text-align: right;"><span class="apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><o:p><br />
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</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul><li><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>心理学是推测,跟盗取没有关系。</u></span></b></span></li>
</ul></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">没错,其实心理学最多只能<b>根据你的行为</b>来<b>推测你的心理</b>,而不是直接从你的脑袋盗取你的想法。</span><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<div style="margin: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"> ‘<span lang="ZH-CN">心理学的分支很多,比如犯罪心理学,可以分析罪犯的动机啊、一部分想法啊,也绝不可能读心的。犯罪心理学仅仅是<b>根据</b>你的外在<b>表现</b>,比如动作、语言,更多的是下意识的东西(不经意流露出的眼神、小动<span class="apple-style-span">作等等</span>)<span class="apple-style-span">等等来推测你的想法</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">’</span> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div align="right" style="margin: 0in; text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">---<span lang="ZH-CN">可乐孤独,</span>2011 <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">这名仁兄</span>/<span lang="ZH-CN">姑娘也是说得不错:</span><span class="apple-style-span"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span">‘<span lang="ZH-CN">所谓的读心术</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">其实</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">是根据对方的语言神态,肢体动作等一切不经意的反映来猜测对方的心里活动。</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">’</span> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div align="right" style="margin: 0in; text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">---<span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">匿名,</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">2010</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
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</span></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: left;"><ul><li><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>心理学包括读心术,但读心术不包括心理学。</u></span></b></span></li>
</ul></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">是不是很奇怪我怎么<b>自打嘴巴</b>说</span><span lang="ZH-CN">心理学包括读心术呢?</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">这是因为心理学是一门很广泛的领域,</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">包含的专业领域<b>一言难尽</b>啊~</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">举个例子吧</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">,</span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">‘<span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">心理学主要分为理论心理学和应用心理学两大领域,其下又可分为许多次领域,例如:</span></span><a href="http://draft.blogger.com/goog_1712214693"><span lang="ZH-CN">理论心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"> <span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">进化心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">異常心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">生理心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">认知心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">正面心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">人格心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">心理统计学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,犯罪心理学,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">教育心理学</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">健康心理学</span><span class="MsoHyperlink"><span lang="ZH-CN">,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">变态心理学</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">,消费心理学,</span></span><span lang="ZH-CN">管理心理学</span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">等等</span></span></a><span class="apple-style-span"><a href="http://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%BF%83%E7%90%86%E5%AD%A6">’</a><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div align="right" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span">---<span lang="ZH-CN">维基百</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">科,</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">2010<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">是不是看到头也大了呢?</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">没错,心理学的范围就像大海那么广,而其中比较接近</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">‘<span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span>’<span lang="ZH-CN">的领域,以下的这名仁兄将解释给你看。</span></span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">‘<span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">事实上,在一些西方国家的认知心理学中,有一个小的分支叫</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">“<b>Expression Analysis</b>”——<span lang="ZH-CN">就是通过分析人的面部表情来试图了解人的内心世界。并且不仅是<b>面部表情</b>,而且也包含了<b>肢体语言的分析</b>,但主要集中在面部表情上。</span></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">这种</span>Expression Analysis<span lang="ZH-CN">的认知心理学分支或许并不像一般人所想的是一种常识性的表情分析,它的研究也是基于严格的实证。这种分析可以通过极其微小的、常人难以察觉的微弱表情变化来了解你的内心世界。或许这是与大众眼中的心理学</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">最为接近的学科了。</span></span><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><br />
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">除</span>Expression Analysis<span lang="ZH-CN">外,或许能与所谓的</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">沾得上一点点边的算是<b>社会心理学</b>了。社会心理学是研究人与人;人与群体、社会;群体间关系的心理学分支。或许为数不少的心理学爱好者之所以对心理学感兴趣为的就是</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">透视</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">他人,遗憾的是,让他们真正地了解了心理学到底学什么,通常感到心理学的枯燥与乏味(原来真实的心理学并不是想象中的心理学)。或许,社会心理学的学习可以给乏味的心理学系统学习增添一点乐趣。</span></span><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><br />
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">通过社会心理学来了解人性,是需要基于<b>扎实的社会心理学功底</b>以及<b>一定的悟性</b>。据了解,<b>真正的社会心理学大师</b>可以称得上</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">的内行。</span></span><o:p></o:p></span></div><div align="right" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span">---<span lang="ZH-CN">转载</span></span><b><span lang="ZH-CN">自:犯罪心理学</span></b><b><span lang="ZH-CN">吧</span></b><span class="apple-style-span"><b><o:p></o:p></b></span></span></div><div align="right" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: small;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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<h3 class="post-title entry-title" style="font-family: Times,'Times New Roman',serif; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; position: relative;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://heng3389.blogspot.com/2009/12/blog-post_28.html"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">你好,我是读心理学的,可是我不会读心术。</span></a></span></h3></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br />
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</span></div><ul><li><h3 style="margin: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-weight: normal;">匿名</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-weight: normal;">. (2010). </span></span><i><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-weight: normal;">读心术是属于心理学么?</span></i></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="apple-style-span">2011<span lang="ZH-CN">年</span>04<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>15<span lang="ZH-CN">日</span>, <span lang="ZH-CN">取自于 </span></span><a href="http://wenwen.soso.com/z/q173478999.htm">http://wenwen.soso.com/z/q173478999.htm</a></span></span></h3></li>
</ul><div style="margin: 0in;"><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span lang="ZH-CN">钟年</span></span><span class="apple-style-span">(<span lang="ZH-CN">武汉大学心理学系教授</span>). (2009<span lang="ZH-CN">年</span>05<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>04<span lang="ZH-CN">日</span>). <i><span lang="ZH-CN">解放日报:心理学就是</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">吗?</span></i></span><span class="apple-style-span">2011<span lang="ZH-CN">年</span>4<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>15<span lang="ZH-CN">日</span>, <span lang="ZH-CN">取自于 </span></span><a href="http://news.xinhuanet.com/tech/2009-05/04/content_11307436.htm">http://news.xinhuanet.com/tech/2009-05/04/content_11307436.htm</a></span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">可乐孤独. (2011年07月01日). <i>百度贴吧: 心理学不是读心术. </i>2011年4月15日, 取自于 </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://wenwen.soso.com/z/q262502690.htm">http://wenwen.soso.com/z/q262502690.htm</a></span></span></span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;">领航心理. (2011年04月15日). 学心理学的?那你知道我在想什么吗?2011年04月15日, 取自于 </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small; font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_515b7bf30100tilp.html">http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_515b7bf30100tilp.htm</a></span></span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small; font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span lang="ZH-CN">犯罪心理学</span><span lang="ZH-CN">吧</span>. (<span lang="ZH-CN">日期不详</span>).<b> </b><span class="apple-style-span"><i><span lang="ZH-CN">心理学中的</span></i></span><span class="apple-style-span"><i>“<span lang="ZH-CN">读心术</span>”.</i></span><span class="apple-style-span"> </span><span class="apple-style-span">2011<span lang="ZH-CN">年</span>4<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>15<span lang="ZH-CN">日</span>, <span lang="ZH-CN">取自于</span></span><a href="http://www.51xuewen.com/group/1753/topic_20653.htm">http://www.51xuewen.com/group/1753/topic_20653.htm</a></span></li>
</ul></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal;">维基百科. (2010年3月26日). 心理学:研究领域. </span>2011<span lang="ZH-CN">年</span>4<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>15<span lang="ZH-CN">日</span>, <span lang="ZH-CN">取自于 </span><a href="http://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%BF%83%E7%90%86%E5%AD%A6">http://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%BF%83%E7%90%86%E5%AD%A6</a></span></li>
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</div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-41346011244953226222011-04-14T15:20:00.009+08:002011-04-14T18:53:32.744+08:00植物大战僵尸 (赚钱篇) Make fast money in Plants vs. Zombies<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">不可置信,我竟然开始写Plants vs. Zombies的游戏攻略了?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">咳咳。。。这证明我的假期生活真的是很够力废。</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">不过,至少我把我所懂得的东西写出来,也算有少少贡献啦~(自欺欺人)</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">顺道一体,这个游戏真的是太好玩了~怎么玩都不腻!:p</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>××× </b>先声明,这篇是献给植物大战僵尸(Plants vs. Zombies)的玩家,如果你没有玩这个游戏的话,你还是别继续看下去了,免得你看得一个头两个大 <b>×××</b></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>How to earn fast money in Plants vs. Zombies without downloading any application from the web? </b></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>方法一:利用小游戏的 Last Stand 赚钱。(看图一)</u></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>Solution 1: Utilize the Last Stand from the Mini-Games. (See the picture below)</u></span><br />
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>方法二:浇水&改变时间</u></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><u>Solution 2: Watering the plants and change the time setting</u></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">不知你是否发现每当你的电脑显示半夜12点正时,你Zen Garden里的植物便会一起‘口渴’,需要你去滋润它呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">Did u ever notice that </span><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">every time</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">the</span> time on your <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">computer displays 12a.m.</span><span title="Click for alternate translations">, the plants in your </span><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">Zen Garden</span> becomes <span title="Click for alternate translations">thirsty and </span><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations">need</span> you <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">to</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">nourish</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">it?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">没错,这个方法就是调整你电脑里的时间至凌晨12点正(12a.m.),然后替你的植物浇水以此赚钱。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yes, I am going to tell you to change the time on your computer to 12a.m. and earn money through watering your plants. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">当他们‘喝饱’后你可以再调整电脑里的时间去12点,以此类推。别担心,你拥有的钱<b>不会</b>回到你修改之前的价值,而是会<b>继续增加</b>。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When they have enough water already, change the time on your computer to 12a.m. again. Don't worry, the money you hold WILL NOT change back to what u had before but KEEP INCREASING. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">而需要音乐的植物可以给唱机,但别浪费你的青色喷雾(5个$1000)如果你知道你还要改回半夜12点。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If your plants need music, just give them but don't waste your Bug Spray which cost you $1000 for 5 if you are going to modify the time on your computer to 12a.m.. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">首先,你需要拥有蜗牛及一片巧克力。(蜗牛可从店里购买,巧克力可以从任何关卡里获得)</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First of all, you need to buy the Snail from the Shop and have a piece of chocolate. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">然后,去Zen Garden里喂你那懒惰的蜗牛吃一片巧克力,然后<b>记录你喂食的时间</b>。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">After that, go to Zen Garden to feed your lazy Snail a piece of chocolate and <b>record down the time you fed it. </b></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">由于蜗牛吃巧克力后可以连续不偷懒一个小时,所以你可以放心利用你的电脑做其他事情。(请记得显示你的 Zen Garden 在桌面否则你的钱不会增加)</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Now you can use one hour to do other things while the Snail works for you for one hour. (Remember to open the Zen Garden in your desktop or your money will not increase)</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">但一个小时后那只蜗牛就会开始偷懒了,所以你必须要在不到一个小时的之前,把你电脑里的时间<b>调整回你喂食的时间</b>。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">However, the Snail will start to sleep again after one hour so you have to<b> change back the time when you fed it </b>before it starts to sleep. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">嗯,大概就是这样,如果你有其它更好的赚钱方式记得告诉我哦~谢啦^^</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That's all for what i know. Please share to me if you have a better way to earn money~ Thanks^^</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">By 二姐</span></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-20078388517283786542010-11-12T01:25:00.005+08:002010-11-13T11:00:53.986+08:00假期打工计划在得知明年将会有三个月多的假期后,身边的朋友都在陆陆续续开始策划着假期打工计划,<br />我也不例外。<br /><br />上个星期,我很庆幸我被yamah*学院录取当part timer了,<br />我要做的工作就是在那边教我拿手的<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"><span class="Apple-style-span">吉他</span></span>。<br /><br /><br /><br /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7N5KMwQU8PR2FUkXkV131XV3yBoD8CzyAc32QUjyxjQsiykxYRDYspveFUxCC0vORjMAtixQzu0Hg9jSXGItIyiZBSBAzpqrH-un_QAGjyrue7wm_cfa4hMbO2bZmNSf05TqKSbzOhg9H/s320/guitar.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538862708781061074" /><br /><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>才怪。<br /><br />我是被录取了,可是不是教吉他,而是当文书。<br />工钱还不错,一个小时五块,而且就在我家楼下,走下去就到了,<br />真是一份<span class="Apple-style-span">天衣无缝</span>的工作啊~(又在乱用成语)<br /><br />然后,在某个早晨,<br />我突然做了一个很欠扁的决定。<br /><br />我拒绝了yamah*的工作,<br />因为,你听我说。。。<br /><br />我想念我的蝴蝶睡衣装,双人床,<br />弟弟那副死人样,<br />妹妹那副邋遢样,<br />爸爸冷冷的幽默感,<br />还有最重要的是。<br />妈妈唠唠叨叨的温暖还有她的一手好菜!<br /><br />我每天早上醒来第一件烦恼就是早餐要吃什么,第二件烦恼就是午餐可以吃什么,第三件烦恼就是晚餐要吃什么。<br />这对我来说真的是一件非常懊恼的事情。<br />我有个坏习惯,就是我顾虑太多,造成我有选择困难症。<br />还有另一个坏习惯就是,如果我被逼要吃一样的食物连续超过3次,我以后就会杜绝那样食物了,所以我的选择不多。<br /><br />就在某个早晨,<br />当我在烦恼早餐要吃什么的时候,<br />我一想到我在未来的日子都要继续那样的生活,<br />我就非常想哭,然后哭到我不去上学。<br />然后我的学业将会满江红,因为我每天忙着哭&想着可以吃什么东西。<br /><br />但是聪明伶俐的我想到一个很好的解决方案,<br />那就是回家乡做part time!<br />这样就可以一面赚钱一面享受家庭温暖啊~<br />“方慧雯,<span class="Apple-style-span">你真聪明</span>。” 我暗笑。<br /><br />话题回到我拒绝yamah*的工作后,我打听了一下我家乡的工钱。<br />没想到跟三年前的一样,一个小时三块钱。<br />比较善良的,给三块半。<div>不止工钱少,我还要离开我心爱的<span class="Apple-style-span">他</span>。<br />“方慧雯,你真笨。” 我的心在哭。<br /><br />你问我有没有后悔了?<br />我的答案很肯定的两个字:没有。<br /><br /><div><br />因为再多的钱给我,我也是买不到一餐妈妈的家常小菜啦!<div> </div><div> </div></div></div><div><br /></div></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-57437069103842704322010-10-08T16:51:00.000+08:002010-10-08T16:51:08.864+08:00大便这篇文章(?)是被我妹逼着写的。<br />
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没错,我就是无。聊。二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-67886204410516312512010-09-27T19:39:00.002+08:002010-09-27T20:16:58.680+08:00欢乐时光过得特别快,又是时候说bye bye~<div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;"><u><br /></u></div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOOp0Cd14CsIEQNW6HddofZlo2lN9PNACe5-St4trhTErR-fqpimy7oMaCpXaPiNAZYlub30jVgfFDvj598C4vTQ9zqPdvBejS3-MSm8c8wWwhYhOgcZ9ve0AQvIc8din1-j9Nbai1sHf5/s320/DSC05141.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521558768033739202" /></div>三个礼拜前的我:Yeah~ 假期了~<div><div>今天的我:Huh? 开学了。。。</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>拉曼学院的假期一向来都短到<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">吓死人</span></span>。</div><div>不过这样也好。</div><div>因为短,所以才会珍惜嘛。</div><div>这个假期,没有跟朋友去旅行,所以我跟家人去关丹旅行。</div><div>整个旅程就是坐车,吃,坐车,吃,坐车,吃。。。(晕)</div><div>虽然我对吃没有什么兴趣,不过能和家人旅行,我觉得蛮开心的。</div><div>不过,Kemaman 的酿蟹超好吃的啦!(流口水) </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>去关丹后本姑娘生病生了一个礼拜。</div><div>为什么?</div><div>因为本人的Tangki不好,不敢在车上多喝水咯。(妈:别找借口!)</div><div> </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaqRj_vxz-sy9OarpVgvX2BxE_nsYI7sqMhGFftCqBePp2hxV6sfEx_57ptObSF5JN9yyxtPu505lTU_qn_RifFnShuAXsx9yCTDFzB8xeyZ2e0ZzGmqLRxNqMhA-ILPCoJuTHQsQ8zjcZ/s320/DSC05116.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521558762278869266" /><div><br /></div><div>可是很骄傲的是,我虽然发烧,喉咙痛,感冒,可是我没有吃任何的药就痊愈了。(自豪中)</div><div> </div><div>除了跟家人去旅行之外,我还做了几件有意义的事。</div><div>那几件事,真的是有意义到我可以拿诺贝尔奖了。(误)</div><div>第一件事:就是教我老爸玩<b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #3d85c6;">面子书</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #3d85c6;">!</span></b></div><div>第二件事:对!就是教我妈玩<b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #3d85c6;">面子书</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #3d85c6;">!</span></b>(这叫有意义?)</div><div>第三件事:教我爸on-line banking。(虽然不懂他会不会去用)</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>虽然这三件事没有有意义到可以拿诺贝尔奖,可是至少教他们玩面子书,</div><div>让他们跟上潮流,变成时尚达人,</div><div>我也是蛮欣慰一下的。</div><div>希望他们不要为了争电脑而吵架吧!(祈祷)</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>还有的就是!我要宣布,明天是一个很重要的日子!</div><div>那就是。。。我跟他的<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #45818e;">1年又5个月</span>纪念日~</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;">亲爱的,哈啤啊逆文色理~</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;"><br /></span></span></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgA922mtqxlLJDpgLC1J5iqDY7gtOGHw3wfpszd0pOm5S_erjATZ30v_AsiZq9R6Xai6vw-bJ5XgcXfpkd6_zbsBQQ0TMxp-G6FMCqTdq1QhZfqvi2syu1MqvKCBySxO-P_K4LJazJ9yyBi/s320/DSC03430.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521562511571129330" /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">跟你在一起的日子,我天天都那么开心。</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg40EPQb85V5OIQVhVrUk7RCzn4Eu16bhUpoo9OLS8b5APdTpeOobyZGI5_nQ2_Qu3oGG1uiGW1m9yBw1PsqwmebFwbaIbwCLNkItZc66v_ccwyBBAs6QVcSKF9NzATWIjfESBymtg_5VgH/s320/DSC03431.JPG" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521564053213819074" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span">虽然你的样子还蛮好笑,</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span">可是我绝对不是因为你的样子而笑。</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span">我是因为幸福而笑。</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0GT3ruiPCE5w5fTGiyBKI4LFH-uw_O0deybBWVPF5eFlZNkwlbZ-tbMoUF2ilWm2pidX4kuQnehgPM7qV2a2WjWutb5Kp0EEcieM2pbrHqoBTa_oVly6hNKj9FW825AO22J5dP1zVhIVp/s320/DSC03429.JPG" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521564287422388562" /></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-82644135500284832132010-07-19T01:57:00.008+08:002010-07-20T13:07:28.165+08:00友谊篇我一直很珍惜我们的友情。<br /><br />Convo或许对你们来说没什么,这个我能了解。<br />但我不知道,承诺对你们来说也是没什么。<br /><br />你说:如果我能毕业的话,我一定要跟你们一起参加Convo。<br />然后你说:虽然我没参加Convo,但是Convo那天,我一定到!<br />呵呵,放别人飞机的感觉怎么样呢?<br />告诉你,无论你是什么理由不能过来,我的心还是觉得很冷,心灰意冷的冷。<br />一次又一次的借口,早都已经听到麻木了。<br />因为我相信有心要做一样事情的话一定做得到。<br /><br />你你你你你,还有你。<br />你们这群飞机王。<br />谢谢你们答应要来后然后再一起集体放我们aeroplane。<br />我不明白为什么我身边的朋友都很爱这么做。<br />不想来的话一开始就应该诚实回答,不需要事后才来找借口。<br />给人期望过后又让人失望反而令人觉得更难受。<br /><br />对于迟到我也是持有一样的看法。<br />约好几点到就几点到嘛,告诉我几漂亮的借口并没有用。<br />明明知道自己会来不及就约迟一点,或是早一点准备。<br />几十岁人了不可能不懂自己的个性,对吧?<br />个人觉得明明自己不喜欢等人还成天让别人等有点过分咯。<br /><br />我一直很珍惜我们的友情,现在也是。<br />希望以后‘准时’&‘说到做到’将是我们的culture啦。<br />我们一起努力营造这个culture好不好?<br /><br />最后,我要说的是:<br />我爱你们!<br /><div style="text-align: right;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-style: italic;"> 承诺,不是用来打破的。<br /></span><div style="text-align: left;"><br />***延伸阅读:我老妹的<a href="http://stacyheng.blogspot.com/2010/07/blog-post_19.html">给我承诺</a><br /></div><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><br /></span></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-30493668628223066372010-07-16T16:08:00.010+08:002010-07-16T17:38:30.912+08:00毕业咯~<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFF3YC2WYjC0GStCNC7WdFGMHb5RKFkmTBo7hWQ0klCJQ1Q-Dmb7wmAK6aceHBI6E9S0Kp_AJ0LJ3Pd7KCp-ZJN1HlJ4fi4GYn5yNBLdZffgAYSRZthNQUw63cuOOrkyVPUMjc9bIgaJLn/s1600/DSC00669.jpg"><br /></a>明天是我的毕业典礼,是真正替我的diploma生涯画上完美的符号的一天。<br />让我回想我这两年来做过什么轰轰烈烈的事。。。<br /><br />这两年我到底做过什么事呢?<br />刚刚我很努力地想,想到我感觉到我的白头发都要跑出来了。<br />(不行,我明天要拍美美的照片所以我还是不再继续想了)<br />结论是:<br />除了那些有记录在blog的事,<br />其他的,<br /><br /><br /><br />我都忘记了。<br />除此之外,我对我的童年根本没记忆,我不知道我的同学或老师是谁,也不知道我做过什么糗事。<br />而小学生涯,虽然我小学六年来从没换过班级,但我只依稀记得几个小学朋友的名字:丽云,丽斯,侯佳芳。。。及我级任老师李慧娟老师。中学的同班同学我都还记得,不过我很想问:我除了学过吉他,还有一大堆补习补习,我中学时到底在干嘛?<br /><br />很懊恼为什么我的记性能差到这种程度。<br />我在想,我的头脑是不是坏掉了?<br />我似乎无法将我的把短期记忆转换成长期记忆。<br />比较合理的解释就是:我头脑的memory只有512MB.所以当我不够位置装应付考试的知识时,我的头脑就会帮我删掉旧的memory。<br /><br />看来我要买新的memory card了,哪里有卖头脑的memory card记得告诉我。(被巴)<br />很羡慕文骏的头脑的,他的头脑好比external hard-disk。<br />因为他变态到年幼稚园的同学的名字都记得,强到我没话说。<br />我只奢求我能拥有4G的memory。<br /><br />咳咳,看来我以后还是多点写blog好了。要不然我以后结婚生孩子,我的孩子问我年轻时在做什么时,我回答不出就不好咯~<br />我不想给我的孩子嘲笑啊。<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj40MCP5h210TmGM_F8UXmxcboYEDywboh9sopc0cnNPMM9UV_1iDhyphenhyphen2eKi0e7dB2m-cYr-FYJ4vQk24YwwxIyvVj1ztEJDcnrwOLZI9_mdLgHfihTyIccY9ciWss-ylUn0OPHcjGyxlUcD/s1600/DSC00669.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj40MCP5h210TmGM_F8UXmxcboYEDywboh9sopc0cnNPMM9UV_1iDhyphenhyphen2eKi0e7dB2m-cYr-FYJ4vQk24YwwxIyvVj1ztEJDcnrwOLZI9_mdLgHfihTyIccY9ciWss-ylUn0OPHcjGyxlUcD/s320/DSC00669.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5494432878564459330" border="0" /></a><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:78%;" >美吗?</span><br /><br /></div>记事:<br />-我最近参加了啦啦队,成功抬过一次人上去,超有满足感的。(虽然后来我又不成功了)<br />-学会打乒乓,成功杀过一两次球。(虽然后来我又忘记了怎么杀球了)<br />-成功炒好吃的tomyam米粉给家人吃~<br />-认识了一个很好聊的朋友<3二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-90757930168828495102010-06-24T21:43:00.009+08:002010-06-24T23:08:15.528+08:00痴痴地等<div style="text-align: left;">好久没有update blog了。</div><div>虽然不知道有没有人在看我的blog,但客套话还是要讲:</div><div>“不好意思让你们久等啦~”</div><div> </div><div><br /></div><div>说一说最近发生的事吧。</div><div>话说之前我家一直上不到网,所以当家里上得到网时,我觉得异常兴奋。</div><div>一开电脑就上网上到没完没了,天昏地暗,乱七八糟。(对不起老师我又乱用成语)</div>而最近我的电脑开机时一直开不到,害我一直得做system restore,<div>当我在成功开到电脑时,顿时觉得:原来开得到电脑是件多么</div><div>幸福的事。</div><div>人就是这样,拥有时不觉得幸福,失去了才知道珍贵:p</div><div>(不过我都有在珍惜我的他啦)</div><div><div><br /><div>总觉得上天好像一直在考验我的耐心。</div><div> </div><div>我从小就是一直扮演着‘等人’的角色。</div><div>约会时,爸爸总是早早把我载去目的地让我痴痴的等。</div><div>去学校,去补习,我总是早早就抵达。</div><div>虽然经常在等人,可是每次等人时还是会很pekcek。</div></div><div>我觉得准时是礼貌,是尊重。</div><div>所以如果我的他跟我约会迟到,哈哈,他就</div><div>死定了。</div><div><br /></div><div> </div><div>昨天去弄ptptn的东西时,见识到很长很长的龙(简称:排长龙)。</div><div>早上八点去排,下午一点才成功把文件交上去。</div><div>但由于我听说以前有人从早上排到晚上才</div><div>弄好,所以我觉得五个小时内就弄好算是很幸运的了。</div><div>还好有朋友的陪伴,不然我会闷得发慌。</div><div>有朋友真好!</div><div> </div><div><br /></div><div> </div><div>最后,献上近期的照片一张。</div><div style="text-align: center;">我&帅哥一号</div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZNTqZ07sP4NJKryOKU4P94AbgTdCEYjBQTAGnaEuGeUlQ7MdeQQg_T_fogy63jFpzqPubB1MgsFXs6trDxihGEbU3r03n2kNpsPCj0tM-xX3wboNz6BQW_zlIO305galfa5UpiMpuITN3/s320/DSC04674.JPG" style="text-align: center;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5486353551296974722" /></div><div> </div><div><br /></div></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-26207569113609029462010-03-28T00:56:00.003+08:002010-03-28T10:12:47.658+08:00可爱两兄妹在我实习的幼稚园里,有一个脸颊胖乎乎的3岁小妹妹,及她的哥哥(大她1岁),每天手牵手一起上学去,感情好得不得了。<br />他们笑起来有可爱的酒窝,额头前面有平平的刘海,<br />他们大多数时间都是手牵手站在一个地方一起发呆。<br />每次一见到他们,我都得克制自己喊“好可爱哦~”然后去亲他们脸颊的欲望。<br /><br />一天,我照顾一个新来的3岁小弟弟。<br />他的眼泪就好像坏掉的水龙头流个不停,并一直哭着找妈妈。<br />然后有一次,那小弟弟好不容易静下了。<br />那个小妹妹突然转过头来,指着那个弟弟说:“他要妈妈啊?他要妈妈抱抱啊?”<br />小弟弟一听到“妈妈”这两个敏感的字,眼睛的水龙头又开始坏掉了。<br />我觉得好气又好笑。<br />我说小妹,你非得挑这种时候才开口说话吗?(她平常很少说话)<br /><br />知道原来那个小妹妹其实是会讲话后,我便经常找她,尝试想跟她讲话,她呆呆地看着我。<br />看着她呆呆的样子,我对她笑,她也对我笑。<br />我以为是因为她太小所以听不懂我讲的话,<br />结果后来问了她的老师后我才懂,<br />原来是因为她只注重在教他们读书认字,没有叫他们做东西,所以他们是听不懂指示的,尤其是妹妹。<br />我听了震撼无比。<br />小孩子本来就是会随着年龄的增长慢慢学习新的事物,学会读书写字,做父母的又何必操之过急呢?<br />所谓拔苗助长啊。。。<br /><br />可怜的两兄妹。二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-61163797870553977272010-03-09T23:13:00.008+08:002010-03-10T00:18:46.287+08:00或许,我们都有那么一天。“如果有一天我突然变成了疯子,脏兮兮地在街上走动,然后我看到了你,我走向你,向你讨钱买鸡饭吃,你会给吗?”老师问。<br /><br />我点点头,心想:这是当然的事啊,老师教导我,赐给我知识,有恩于我,要是老师落难,我这个做学生的怎么能不帮呢?<br /><br />老师接话:“所以你们会帮我因为我曾经是个有用的人咯?<br /><br />我轻轻地点了点头。<br /><br />这时老师说了一句刺中我心的话:“那么你们又怎么懂那些在街上无家可归的流浪汉,乞丐,老人,疯子。。。是不是曾经也是个有用的人呢?<br /><br />对啊,每逢有乞丐向我们讨钱时,我们第一个想到的东西就是:他值不值得我帮?或是:他是否在骗我?<br />我们会先从他<span style="font-weight: bold;">外表</span>来判断他可不可怜来决定他值不值得帮,他是否在欺骗。<br /><br />如果你觉得:哼,他到今天这个地步是一定他活该!有手有脚不去做工,我给他钱可不是宠坏了他吗?<br />那么你是否想过,<br />如果有一天,变成疯子的人是你,<br />你的家人不要你,抛弃你,<br />你半夜睡在街上,一直被风吹到冷醒,早上被太阳晒醒,被汽车的鸣声吵醒,<br />肚子饿了要吃东西没有钱买,<br />跟别人讨钱没有一个人要给你,<br />你会怎么想呢?<br /><br />也可能有一天,你遇上了老千/被朋友/亲戚骗财,骗完你所有钱。。。<br />也或许有一天,经济不景气你被公司被淘汰,你是家里唯一的经济来源。。。<br />又或许有一天,你买的股票一夜之间跌倒谷底,另一半跟人跑了,你变成疯子。。。<br />也或许有一天,你老了,有了老人痴呆,又整身老人病,被儿女推来推去,最后沦落街头。。。<br /><br />或许,我们都有那么一天。二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-49045216335970600192010-02-25T23:06:00.004+08:002010-02-25T23:49:03.152+08:00童言童语<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhicedok4Ar3p6ZqdWfdBZIm02s4xw65q8hTRjgoFvrfoFr01TjaV_AMA-8fZL-DBojPBVMo9Sm0fY1cm4jcgbCKaqkBYQLoghzjrhmjT5TnJEbPmG4RpLa7_ZkxwRwtugsKaJr0RzKdk6j/s1600-h/DSC03720.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhicedok4Ar3p6ZqdWfdBZIm02s4xw65q8hTRjgoFvrfoFr01TjaV_AMA-8fZL-DBojPBVMo9Sm0fY1cm4jcgbCKaqkBYQLoghzjrhmjT5TnJEbPmG4RpLa7_ZkxwRwtugsKaJr0RzKdk6j/s320/DSC03720.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5442208025746914546" border="0" /></a><br />才去幼稚园实习两天,就听了不少童言童语。<br /><br />童言童语1<br />小朋友:你为什么穿这个衣来?你的校服叻?(他们以为我是新来的同学)<br />我:因为我没有校服咯~<br />小朋友: 你的校服在那里?<br />我:。。。<br /><br />童言童语2<br />小朋友:你为什么那么迟才来?<br />我:因为我老师那么迟才叫我来咯~<br />小朋友:哦。。。你为什么那么迟才来?(他们以为我长那么大了才来上幼稚园)<br />我:我不知道。<br /><br />童言童语3<br />小朋友:你几岁?<br />我:二十岁~<br />小朋友:两岁?(有些小孩还没学到超过个位数的数字)<br /><br />童言童语4<br />小朋友:你几岁?<br />我:二十岁~<br />小朋友:哦~你几岁?<br />我:我<span style="font-weight: bold;">二十</span>岁。<br />小朋友:。。你到底几岁?<br />我:那你几岁?(反问)<br />小朋友:我五岁,你叻?<br />我:我也是。<br /><br />童言童语5<br />小朋友:姐姐姐姐,你几岁?(我发现小孩子很喜欢问这个问题)<br />我:我二十岁,不过我下个星期就二十一岁了哦~因为姐姐下个星期生日。<br />小朋友:哇~~~~(好像我做了什么厉害的事)<br /><br />童言童语6<br />小朋友:姐姐,我喜欢你,因为你很美。(这是本人听到最开心的童言童语)<br /><br />童言童语7<br />小朋友:姐姐,你是熊。<br />我:我不是熊,我是食人魔。<br />小朋友:什么是食人魔?<br />我:食人魔是会吃人的动物。<br />小朋友:就好像巫婆一样?妈妈说看到糖果屋不可以进去,不然会被吃掉。(开始滔滔不绝)<br />我:对。而且我最喜欢吃小朋友。<br />小朋友:Har?(露出一丝惊慌的表情)<br />我:没有啦,骗你的,我不喜欢吃小朋友了。<br /><br />我听学长说,去幼稚园实习很惨,小孩子像恶魔酱,整天哭哭啼啼。<br />但我却觉得幼稚园是天堂,而小朋友们是天使,可爱又纯真的天使。<br />很庆幸当时我坚持选择在幼稚园实习,也很庆幸我找到那么好的一间幼儿园(那里的院长跟老师们人都超好的)<br /><br />更多的童言童语,我会再upload,敬请期待。二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-5699386230440502622010-02-16T22:58:00.005+08:002010-02-16T23:36:21.539+08:00心理学vs曼谷教训<div>曼谷惊险之旅带给我一个很大的启发,那就是,拥有一个良好形象还蛮重要的。</div><div>一旦你拥有良好的形象,你的可信度便会增加,做什么事都会比较顺利,比如说:骗人。</div><div>试问装着西装的人与穿到很邋遢的陌生人告诉你的话,你会比较相信谁?</div><div>+</div><div>+ </div><div>怎么树立良好形象呢?这个就要提到非语言信息(Non-Verbal Message)啦~</div><div>在人与人的沟通交流中,非语言信息是非常重要的。</div><div>非语言信息就是你的穿着、举止、长相、声音、面部表情所带给别人的信息。</div><div>美国心理学家奥伯特•麦拉比安发现人的印象形成是这样分配的:</div><div>55%取决于你的外表,包括服装、个人面貌、体形、发色等;</div><div>38%是如何自我表现,包括你的语气、语调、手势、站姿、动作、坐姿等等;</div><div>55%+38%等于93%,也就是说,非语言信息带给人的影响竟然占了93%!</div><div>而只有<b>7%</b>才是你所讲的真正内容。(好可悲)</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div>同样一个信息(Verbal Message)结合不同的非语言信息(Non-Verbal Message)会带来不同的效果。</div><div>例子如下:</div><div>如果你要称赞一个人煮的菜很好吃,你不能一面说“好吃”,一面摆出一副<b>要吐</b>的脸部表情,而是要一面说“好吃”,一面吃得狼吞虎咽好像<b>几千年没吃过食物</b>一样;</div><div>要称赞男/女朋友的时候不要眼神闪烁,或是<b>看着天空</b>告诉她“你今天好帅/美”,而是看着他/她的<b>眼睛</b>,然后用欣赏的语气&语调告诉他/她,“你今天好帅/美”。</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div>怎样?是不是觉得非语言信息很神奇叻?</div><div>所以如果你的人际关系不好的话,不妨检查一下你的<b>脸部表情</b>-是否经常摆苦瓜脸,表情不够诚恳等等。</div><div>如果你讲话经常没人在听的话,或许检查一下你的<b>声音质量</b>会有帮助-key是否太高/太低,速度是否太快/太慢。(因为Key太高别人听久了会觉得刺耳,太低别人听久了会想找周公,速度太快别人可能会反应不来,讲话太慢别人还是会想找周公)</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div>一个人拥有良好形象是很重要的。</div><div>从心理学上,人们通常把那些外表吸引力强的人看做友善、聪明且善于社交的人。</div><div>外表吸引力很大程度依赖于天生,但人们可以通过一些方法使自己的吸引力最大化,<b>穿着打扮</b>就是其中之一。</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div>在知道我在曼谷被耍后,我哥提醒了我一点:</div><div>不要轻易相信任何陌生人,即使是穿到很Smart的人也一样。 </div><div>我们人就是这样,认为穿着西装的人地位就比较高,地位比较高的人讲话比较可信,因此而陷入骗局而恍然不知。</div><div>是谁讲穿到很Smart的人比较厉害,他们讲的话就是对的?</div><div>这也可以解释为什么那些做Sales的要穿西装去推销他们的产品,或是为什么Presentation时要穿Formal衣,因为可以增加可信度呀。</div><div>是谁说穿到像Manager的人就是Manager?穿到像商人的人就是商人?</div><div>要知道,形象(Image)是可以被捏造出来的。</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div>总的来说,要树立良好形象,要从你的非语言信息开始。</div><div>还有,不要乱乱相信<b>看起来很厉害</b>的人所说的话,因为形象是可以被捏造出来的。</div><div>虽然我看起来也很厉害,可是我今天所说的话确实真的。</div><div>好吧,今天的课就到这里。</div><div>Any questions。。。? </div><div>我就知道没有。好吧,解散。</div><div> </div><div><br /></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-22432002716997941142010-02-16T17:32:00.005+08:002010-02-16T17:48:37.659+08:00曼谷惊险之旅2讲了那么久,我还没讲到主题。(被巴)<br />之所以把这次的旅行称之为“曼谷惊险之旅”是有原因的。。。<br /> <br /> <br />在一个商场外面,我们遇到了一个穿到着西装的泰国男人(我当下觉得他是那里的负责人/manager之类的),<br />在闲话家常几句后,他问我们:<br />"Why don't you go to Lucky Buddha? It only open once a month, and it is today! It will be close soon at 2pm. It's not far from here."<br />那时已经快要2点了,他很好心地帮我们招了一辆tuk-tuk,来回只需RM2。<br />我心想:哇,一个月一次都被我们遇到,反正tuk-tuk便宜,我们又有时间,见识一下也无妨。<br /> <br /> <br />去到那里,只见一座很陈旧的寺庙,不见人影,我们推门进去。<br />我心想:应该是因为要关了所以没人吧!<br />去到里面,有位穿着西装的business man在拜拜,他见我们是外地来的便很好心地告诉我们那个lucky buddha的历史,间中告诉我们一些泰国的历史,<br />还有这lucky buddha是怎么把好运带给他妈妈,从<span style="font-weight:bold;">走不动路到能够走路</span>。<br />他说,这都得靠一块stone(石头,或称“宝石”)。<br />自从拜了这个神,他很有缘地买/找到一块石头,给他妈妈戴上了过后,她便奇迹性地会走路了。<br />所以他很感激这个lucky buddha,让他很幸运拥有这块神奇的stone。<br />他也提到我们怎么去一间有卖这个stone的店,那个店是International Export Center,在什么地方我没专心听,反正也只不过是石头一块。(吃不到葡萄说葡萄酸啊~)<br /><br /><br />离开寺庙,那位tuk-tuk司机不带我们回去原本的地方,反而带我们我找他的sponsor.<br />很巧的,他的sponsor也就是International Export Center,而我们也很配合地在那间店待了15分钟以上,<br />那里的店员告诉男友的妈妈:今天有新年特别Promotion。。。这个红宝石只有他们店有卖。。。其他店卖的都是假的。。。之前有个泰国男人买了这个宝石给他妈戴后他妈变奇迹似地会走路了。<br />我听了觉得有点好笑,心想:那个business man的故事还真出名,搞不好每间珠宝店的店员都喜欢用他的故事来promote他们的宝石呢。<br /> <br /> <br />回到原本我们在的地方时已经是一个小时后的事了。<br />不过我们并没有购买任何东西。<br />毕竟宝石太贵了。<br />我心想:我们还真幸运呀~出门遇贵人,一个月只开一次的寺庙竟然被我们遇到了,而且去到那里还有个会讲英文的business man好心地为我们讲解 lucky buddha 的历史呢~<br />真是幸运的一天。<br /> <br /> <br />直到我回来后看到<a href="http://www.into-asia.com/bangkok/gemscam/">这篇文章</a>后我才知道,原来我们被耍了!<br />原来在商场的那个穿着西装的男人(我以为他是manager的那个),tuk-tuk车司机,寺庙里虔诚的business man&珠宝店店员都是一伙的!<br />曼谷并没有所谓的Lucky Buddha(或 Standing Buddha), 那男人的故事也是捏造出来的,珠宝店的宝石搞不好也不是真的。<br />他们兜了一大个圈子,最主要的目的不为其他,而是要我们买下他们的珠宝。<br /> <br /> <br />我该说,并不是穿着西装的人讲的话就比较可信?<br />还是说,幸好我不是百万富翁?<br /> <br />唉,出门旅行还是要小心为妙,不要贪小便宜,那才是上上之道啊。(喝茶)二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-82768049455913769762010-02-15T17:04:00.018+08:002010-02-16T20:55:45.624+08:00曼谷惊险之旅1<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">去了新加坡后的下个礼拜,我便跟男友&他家人去了泰国的曼谷游玩。</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">这也是我的第一次。。。坐飞机。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">Air Asia的座位很窄,至于空姐呢。。。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">还是我学校的老师比较美。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">我们去了曼谷六天五夜,几乎每天都去逛街。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">我逛街逛得头昏脑胀,男友泄肚子泄得乱七八糟。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">对我而言的“曼谷惊险之旅”对我男友应该是“曼谷泄肚子之旅”吧!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">可怜的他,平常蹦蹦跳跳high得不得了,要出远门时却生病。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">希望下次出远门时不要再那么多灾多难了。(祈祷)</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">在曼谷的这几天,我们几乎都以tuk-tuk车代步。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">tuk-tuk车之所以叫tuk-tuk车是因为它的引擎声跟旧了的摩托车一样,走车的时候有tuk tuk tuk tuk声。(二姐,2010)</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">我们选择tuk-tuk车是有原因的:便宜。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">比起四个人坐地铁或德士,做tuk-tuk车比较划算,况且曼谷每天都在塞车,tuk-tuk车小小辆可以钻来钻去。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">但它也有其缺点:耗时。如果你赶时间的话,劝你还是不要坐tuk-tuk的好,除非你有相熟的tuk-tuk司机,或是你给他多点钱,叫他赶快带你去你要的地方。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">因为通常tuk-tuk车司机带你去你指定的目的地之前,他们都会带你去找他们的sponsors:金店,衣服店,礼品店等。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">只要你在店里待超过15分钟,他们便可以得到一个chop,收集不知几个chop他们就可以免费打油一次。要是你在店里买东西的话,他们便可以得要更多的chop。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">善良的我们都很乖待个15分钟以上,偶尔买点东西,小小支持一下当作是帮助别人。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">四个人坐一辆tuk-tuk是挤了点,太阳大了点,空气污浊了点,不过这还是一场不错的经历,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">反正我们有的是时间。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">+</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">这是tuk-tuk的照片。</span></span></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></span></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitsARLAl6R2MsqUeXpli3hmRAVFVcVg68-brfzPrjuFipmTl9hTFJXQiTjpO4rMh7PgpbUbn8kX6T_D27SSG0OAHMhn7ornbAP8Jejdt-p86ayc7u_zymYpeOBv6jcfdRO1MFIrI1d4LES/s1600-h/tuktuk.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitsARLAl6R2MsqUeXpli3hmRAVFVcVg68-brfzPrjuFipmTl9hTFJXQiTjpO4rMh7PgpbUbn8kX6T_D27SSG0OAHMhn7ornbAP8Jejdt-p86ayc7u_zymYpeOBv6jcfdRO1MFIrI1d4LES/s320/tuktuk.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438427432885638690" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-75076169528646574812010-02-15T15:51:00.010+08:002010-02-15T17:04:07.343+08:00第一次出国,Woo Hoo~这个假期,我把我的第一次献出去了。(羞)<div>别想歪,我指的是第一次出国啦~<div> </div><div>由于我是路痴&胆小鬼,不太敢一个人塔巴士去新加坡。</div><div>所以就在 1月30日,男友陪我一同去新加坡找阿萱跟我大姐。</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>阿萱是我中学坐我旁边,每次被我欺负的女生。</div><div>她的皮肤白里透红,我每次肚子饿、上课觉得无聊时都说要咬她,</div><div>但每次都被她极力反抗成功。</div><div>当年傻傻的她,如今我看到她,</div><div>哇,不得了!</div><div>她还是一样傻傻的。</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>阿萱跟我都是一样是路痴,每天走的路走来走去还是可能会走错。(哈)</div><div>但是我很佩服她,佩服她勇于追求梦想的勇气。</div><div>路痴+未来的fashion designer ,加油! </div><div>希望下次再去新加坡找你时,你已经进化成路神了。</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>说到我大姐,我觉得她很勇敢,一个人去新加坡找工作,找房子那些。</div><div>以前我刚上来kl读书时有她照顾我,这次去新加坡也是。</div><div>大姐除了是女强人,也是个思想周到的女人。</div><div>我还没去新加坡之前她就给了我一些新币,</div><div>一去到新加坡就她就去买了张'tik-tik'卡方便我塔地铁跟巴士,</div><div>怕我自己回去新山时会迷路,在我回去的前一天便带我走一遍,教我该塔什么巴士,怎么走回去的路,让我觉得好窝心。</div><div>姐,谢谢你,如果没有你,我大约会横死在新加坡街头吧。(眼泪汪汪)</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div>+</div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>下一篇:曼谷惊险之旅,尽请期待。 </div><div> </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div> </div><div><br /></div></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6200222102652862271.post-46227251657269370232010-01-27T10:56:00.004+08:002010-01-27T11:41:58.592+08:00封。印。解。除。今天是我考完试的第二天。<br />在这里,我正式宣布二姐我,封。印。解。除!<br />忙了一个月,终于考完试了。<br />几乎读书读到要疯了。<br />他妈的累到半死。(被巴)<br /><br />昨天帮花花,Heng少&相公在pizza hut庆祝生日。<br />拍了张班级照,虽然每个人的脸部表情都怪怪的,不过我还是很喜欢那张照片。<br />想不到到了college还能拍像小学中学那样的班级照。(笑)<br /><br />再过一个sem就要从diploma毕业了。<br />虽然我仍然还是留在拉曼学院继续读,但并不是大家都跟我一样。(擦眼泪)<br />所以叻,最近有一个idea,想为班上的朋友拍个video。<br />主题是:十年后的我们<br /><br />这是一个类似访问的video,地点是学校,被访问的人当然就是我的同学咯(当然也不拒绝其他要参与的同学/老师)<br />我会问类似这种问题:十年后的你会是。。。?<br />我想,十年后的我们看回这个video一定觉得很好笑吧。<br />或许会觉得当时的自己很可爱,也许觉得自己那时很狂妄,或许也会惊讶为什么当时会有这种想法。。。<br />所以叻,如果你是我的同学的话,今天晚上就点高枕头想你要给我的答案吧~(我会在开学后开始拍摄)<br />无论你的梦想有多疯狂,有多搞笑都好。<br />我是绝对不会跟别人讲的。(我最都只会在fb share出来罢了)<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-style: italic;">不疯狂的梦想,怎么算是梦想呢?</span><br /></div>二姐http://www.blogger.com/profile/14537761480879382021noreply@blogger.com5